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Time to talk about Thanksgiving. Join us around the table as we talk about Thanksgiving Traditions. We also welcome our daughter, Breya, to the table, so pull up a chair, it's Gathered in the Higham House.
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Thanksgiving, A Time to Remember: http://www.lifeinthehighamhouse.com/the-blog/a-time-to-remember - Life in the Higham House Thanksgiving Special 2020: https://youtu.be/Qm9hY6WA4a4 - Life in the Higham House Thanksgiving Special 2021:: https://youtu.be/9rcV7T6g9tA - Life in the Higham House Thanksgiving Special 2018: https://youtu.be/6CgTpY7jR7U - Life in the Higham House Thanksgiving Weekend 2017: https://youtu.be/jywqoC9Lfn0 - Life in the Higham House Thanksgiving Special 2017: https://youtu.be/LQZX_3GFwJg Do you have questions about family, parenting, marriage, ministry or faith? We'd love to hear them! Send us your questions and be a part of the conversation! Click here to submit your questions: http://www.lifeinthehighamhouse.com/the-podcast.html Connect with us on Social Media... - www.Facebook.com/lifeinthehighamhouse - www.Instagram.com/lifeinthehighamhouse - www.YouTube.com/@lifeinthehighamhouse YOU CAN ALSO LISTEN ON YOUR
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Actually, it's the Monday of Thanksgiving weeK! And, it's going to be an amazing week.
We in full-on holiday mode. Amy and Breya, only have a couple days of school. Asher is already on his break. The other kids are al coming home, and we're going to spend the majority of this week with family.
It's going to be a good week. Turkey. Stuffing. Mashed potatoes. Cranberries. Dinner rolls. Pumpkin pie. Yep, we'll have the whole spread. But there will also be a parade, a visit to dad's graveside, maybe some holiday shopping, and plenty of time story telling, laughing, and reminiscing. We really do have so much to be thankful for this year.
With everything going on in this world, in our lives, this songs spoke right to our hearts. God is still God, and he loves us. He is providing for us. Showing us every day that he is moving in our lives.
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You make joy out of simple and ordinary things
You fill life up with stories I'd never think to dream So this holiday I wanna praise The One who's making a saint Out of this sinner The One who's turned me into this thanks giver - Source: Musixmatch - Songwriters: Benjamin Glover / Jeff Sojka / David W Crowder |
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Happy Thanksgiving!
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As part of the "sorting process" we are sharing some of our favorite vlog and blog posts. Since we are preparing for the Thanksgiving holiday, we thought it would be fun to share our Thanksgiving vlogs. Think of it as a trip down memory lane.
happy thanksgiving 2016
We decided to vlog our day, capturing as much as we could! After all, it won't be much longer before we have some major changes hit our house. Logan will soon be away at college, and Nate will follow a year later. So knowing that time is flying by, we are really trying to make memories now!
Yes, we have much to be thankful for.
We hope that you and your family had a great Thanksgiving! Thank you for being a part of our journey by reading the blog, watching our blogs, and connecting with us on our social media channels. As you know, our hope is to encourage families. So we hope that we are encouraging you!
Happy Thanksgiving!
- the higham family
Oh, and don't forget our Christmas posts! Yes, we are getting ready for Christmas and you will not want to miss all the traditions, decorating, and sharing! It's finally here, the 2024 Holiday Season! Let's go!!
- jay and amy
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Before you know it, we'll be sitting around the dinner table, sharing what we are most thankful for this year. But what do you do when it's been a tough year? What do you do when it's been a couple of tough years?
What do you do when you've experienced loss, health challenges, financial difficulties, or life changing situations? How do you give thanks, when you're still in the midst of grief, struggle, or the unknown?
In 1 Thessalonians, we read these words, "16 Rejoice always, 17 pray continually, 18 give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus." (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 NIV)
Rejoice always. Pray continually. Give thanks in all circumstances. For this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus. What does this mean? Is it possible? And why should we?
2023 was another year of challenge. We stepped out of ministry and into what we called a self-imposed sabbatical. We needed time to deal with all that 2022 threw at us. 2024 has been a year of refocusing. While we're not out of the wilderness, we are coming closer to the border.
In light of all of this, what does it look like to rejoice always? Pray continually, okay, we've been doing that. But, be thankful in all circumstances? Hmm. That's going to take some doing. So let's talk about this, and what it looks like to say thank you after a tough season.
What does it look like, "to trust?"
For us, we focused on what we knew to be true. God is God. And God is good.
Over the last 28 years of our marriage, we have watched as our good God, has proven himself over and over again and again. He has provided for us, protected us, paved ways for us, and positioned us to receive his blessing. God moved through people and situations, to show us that He was caring for us.
When we need to be reminded of God's faithfulness in our lives, we just have to look back at how he has shown up in the past. Because we have consistently God's hand on our life, we can rest in the knowledge that he is still working on our behalf. And, because God is good, we trust that he's working all things out for our good. That fact allows us to step into the unknown, trusting God.
We rejoice because that's how you respond when God moves. We choose to rejoice in all circumstances.
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The second part of these verses is verse 17, "pray continually." And that's what we did. We prayed, because there was nothing else we could do.
Time stands still when the word, cancer, is said. We'll probably never forget that day. Our whole world changed. And all we knew to do, was to pray. But it wasn't just us. In the days, weeks, and months that followed, an army assembled and prayed for us. Those prayers continue to this day. Our prayers, continue to this day. We haven't stopped praying. But it hasn't been easy. There have been times when we wondered if our prayers were working. We knew what our faith said, God hears and God answers. But at times, our prayers and the answers didn't line up. It wasn't what we wanted or what we thought. It took some time, but we prayed. And we prayed. And we trusted. We've learned that with our prayers, we have to trust. We have to trust that regardless of the outcome (answer to our prayer) God is good, and He is at work. |
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In all circumstances, give thanks. When it's good, give thanks. No problem. When it's not good, give thanks. Okay, that's a little different.
Right after Amy's surgery, we learned that her father wasn't well. He had been admitted into the hospital and it wasn't good. On June 11th, he passed. About a week later, Jay's father was admitted into the hospital. The next week was up and down. But on July 4th, he passed. In less than a month, we lost both of our fathers. And if that wasn't enough, between the two deaths, we lost our family dog of 14 years, Toby.
Give thanks in all circumstances. What does that look like now?
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Amy's cancer was removed with her surgery. The follow up testing showed she was now cancer free. We were thankful.
An incredibly supportive community of friends and family surrounded us with prayer and cared for us. We were thankful.
Our father's both loved the Lord, their wives, and their children. Both lived and served God well. We are very thankful.
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Our number two is married and has 2 amazing little ones. He has a job he enjoys. He's working hard, providing for his family, and hdoes his best to lead his family as a godly husband and father. We're thankful.
Number three is working full-time in job he loves. He's learning a ton of great skills that will benefit him for the rest of his life. He's fishing and practicing his photography, and hanging out with the family and his friends. We are thankful.
Number five is in high school and growing up faster than we want. She's a good friend who others look up to and admire. We're thankful
And Amy and Jay, well, it's now 28 years together and we're still going strong. God continues to show us his faithfulness. And, yes, we are thankful.
We have found that we have much to be thankful for. And while 2022, might have been a tough year, it pales in comparison to the good that God has shown us. We have so much to be thankful for.
- the higham family
Today's post was edited and adapted from it's original post from November of 2022. 2022 and 2023 were 2 years of transition and change. We continue to seek God for wisdom and direction.
Our hope is that by resharing this post we might encourage you as you are on your journey.
Happy Thanksgiving!
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the green-bean casserole, the pumpkin pie, the, stretchy pants...
In all seriousness, Happy Thanksgiving, from the Higham House
to your house. We hope that today brings you moments to say thank you!
Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise;
give thanks to him and praise his name.
Psalm 100:4 NIV
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We hope that you and your family have a wonderful Thanksgiving Day!
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As we get ready for the Thanksgiving holiday, we thought it might be fun to look back over the last couple of years and the fun we have had celebrating Thanksgiving. Each day this week we will share another Thanksgiving Special.
It's so fun for us to rewatch these videos. The kids were so little. But, oh, the fun we've had. From the food to the games to the time we spent together as a family, man, we are so blessed.
This first video we have is our 2016 Thanksgiving Day holiday. It was one of the first holidays that we vlogged as a YouTube vlogging family. We are so glad we captured these memories. What a great way to remember, not just the holiday, but the conversations, the voices, the laughter, and the fun we had when they were all little.
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Thanksgiving Day Special!
A question for you...
What is one of your favorite Thanksgiving memories?
Share your favorite memory in the comments below, we would love to hear from you!
Happy Thanksgiving!
- jay & amy
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REPOST FROM NOVEMBER 1, 2021
However, as the kids got older and busier, making that trip became more and more difficult, until it was near impossible. Eventually, we just had to say, we weren't coming. And while it was sad not being able to go "home," it did give us the opportunity to start some new family traditions. One of those traditions included having the kids help with Thanksgiving Dinner!
At first, preparing dinner was Amy's job, not by some mandate, but it was just kinda assumed that Amy was cooking. Jay was also in the kitchen helping, but most of the work fell to Amy. Now that might have been okay, but as you know, we had 5 kiddos. That's a lot of work.
Since then, Amy and the kids (and Jay) have been working together to cook and prepare our Thanksgiving dinner. But we've since realized that there were some pretty cool blessings that came from this new tradition.
1-on-1 Time with each kid.
Passing on the recipes.
But when you're learning how to cook your favorite dish with the person who makes your favorite dish, there's no need to "get the recipe," you already know it. Down the road, when we gather for our family Thanksgivings, our hope is that the work of preparing dinner might be spread out as each kid (and their family) arrives to dinner bearing their favorite dish.
More time with the kids,
less time in the kitchen.
Making it about family and
time as a family.
Having the kids help in the kitchen gave us more time to be intentional. But it wasn't just as they helped in the kitchen. No, we found that we now had more to do things as a family. Last year, because the kids had helped prepare the dinner dishes, we had a couple of hours before dinner. So we got online and found some Minute To Win It style games that we could play with our kids. It was awesome! We played the games, laughed, and created all new memories together. You can check out our games by watching our 2020 Thanksgiving Family Special! We had so much fun, we're planning on playing some new family games this year!
What we learned was that we can set aside this time for something more than just football, TV, parades, food, and hours spent in the kitchen. Thanksgiving, and all other holidays, were opportunities to really connect as a family. All it took was recognizing that we wanted more time as a family.
Preparing ahead of time
is super important!
Amy worked with our kids, and the dishes that could be made early, we made early. Some of the items just needed to be heated up, while others needed the proper time to cook. But it was a tremendous time saver to have a number of our dishes ready to go prior to the big day. And we would say, it is worth it if you can plan ahead!
With Thanksgiving still a couple days away, why not think about how you might be able to involve your kids in the preparations of the day. Or, maybe you are already doing so. If you are, tell us about it. Leave a comment below and share how you make your Thanksgiving day something the whole family can participate in and enjoy!
And as always, thanks for visiting!
- jay & amy
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That's the question we asked our kids when they were little, "Why do we celebrate Thanksgiving? "
To be honest, we're not sure how we would have answered that question when we was a kid. Sure, we knew it had something to do with pilgrims and a boat and a big dinner to show their thanks. When we were little, the Wednesday before Thanksgiving was spent at church, participating in a service of thanksgiving. We knew that Thanksgiving was an opportunity to say, thank you, but thank you for what?
Sure we say things like, we're thankful for the blessings we've experienced, but are we really? Do we know enough about that first Thanksgiving and the events that preceded it to know why they were so thankful?
We definitely did not.
Complete with names, dates, details, and personal accounts from handwritten journals, Thanksgiving, A Time to Remember, provides an accurate telling of the Pilgrims journey, challenges, and celebration. It's a story of faith and how God continued to protect, provide, and care for the Pilgrims.
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The book includes a CD with songs of worship and praise that will call your hearts to thankfulness. It's the perfect soundtrack for your Thanksgiving dinner.
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With things still out of whack due to the Covid-19 pandemic, everything is looking a little different, especially in how we celebrate the holidays. For Life in the Higham House, we are beginning to recognize that things will probably be different for a while, and not necessarily because of Covid.
This Thanksgiving there was just 5 of us gathered around the table. Our oldest chose to stay at college for the third year in a row, leaving us with our first empty seat. Our number 2, spent the morning with us, but later left to have dinner with his girlfriend and her family. Out second empty chair. And while this might be a bit upsetting (at first it was), we are coming to grips with the fact that the holiday's will from now on be a little different.
At some point, going "home" for the holiday's
means "staying home" for the holidays.
Yes, we feel the sadness and loss of not having our family all together for Thanksgiving, however, it is forcing us to rethink and reinvent our holiday traditions. This year has helped us turn the page and begin a new chapter in our story.
As parents, we have fought for our family. We have worked hard to be intentional and to make our time with our kids matter. And so this year, we ventured out to start a few new traditions that we hope will help all of us make this all important life transition.
Now let me be honest, I wasn't sure how this would all go down. But I liked the idea of trying something new. By the end of the day, I'd say the games were a big hit. We played, we laughed, we knit-picked the rules, laughed some more, and made some brand new memories. It ended up being one of our favorite Thanksgivings, and now we have a new tradition!
I have always held to the hope that as our kids begin their families, our home would be the place where they want to be for the holidays.
- the higham family
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So far we've enjoyed making Thanksgiving Turkey Cookies and Thanksgiving Pretzel Rods. Two simple, fun and yummy snacks to make with your kiddos. Today we have our last delicious treat, Thanksgiving Turkey Cookie Pops.
These Turkey Cookies Pops might have been a more challenging than we thought. Though, we could have taken the time to slow down a bit and plan ahead a little better. We learned a few things while having fun making our cookies.
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Lesson one: Push the pop stick into the cookie cream filling and cover the cookie and around the stick with melting chocolate. Then let the cookie and chocolate cool and harden on wax or paraffin paper.
Lesson two: With a few dabs of melting chocolate, place the candy corn around edge of the cookie and let cool. The more corn placed closer together looks better. Breya's turkey look way better than Jay's. |
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The best thing about making these treats is the experimenting and learning as you go. We will definitely make this treat again.
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